A View Point From A Third Person's Eye

You failed to had a child of your own. You had your eggs fertilised. But yet it doesn't work.

What does that tells you? God have reason(s) why it happened.

But you ignoring it, and doesn't want to take it as a lesson.

Insisting to adopt a child. Okay. That is fine. You are so happy.

But what happened?? After a while, you got angry.

You couldn't take the burden of having a child.

What did you do? You let it all out at the child.

Yes, she's brilliant, she's smart, she's intelligence.

She understands well. Even if she's still so young.

But, it does not mean you could treat her like an adult.

She still need the care, the love, the guide.

Did you give it to her? Yes.

But did you give it to her, teaching her as she knows nothing and just started to learn? No.

You started working again. And left her at home.

Sneaking out every morning, and came back very late.

Again, she's young. She need the care, and she need the love.

So she seek from other people when you're not around. Cause we look alike.

But when you are back, she wants you. What did you do? You ignored her.

So she went to other people. We can't always look out for her. We have other things to do too.

Tired? We are too. Want to sleep? So do we.

She cried. You don't care.

In fact, expecting the dad to give all the attentions to her.

You are working, he does too. You asked him to give her attention, so he did.

What happened to the fairness? You neglected her.

Why? 'Because she has her dad', as you said.

So, how about you as a mother??

Then you blamed it all to others.

Now, you are still working, and he's not.

While that, he took care of everything. You didn't.

Then, he got a job.

What happened? You could not tolerate and be fair. 

For you, he could not work after office hour neither on the weekends.

Cause for you, he need to take care of the child.

But did you ever think, what about you working after office hour and on the weekends??

Why can't you also take care of the child. She's your daughter isn't she?

Yes, she's adopted. But you wanted her at the first place.

Nowadays, we barely sees you at home.

Early in the morning you were gone, I came back very very late, yet you haven't reached home.

She's with the dad the whole time. It almost a few months now.

Then you wanted to complaints on him not having any job?

Well, he had one, but you didn't approve.

And then he talks about fairness. You didn't agree.

You said: 'selfish, dat is wat u r! talking about fairness.. wth???'

HAHAHAHA..... FYI, YOU ARE THE ONE WHO ARE SO SELFISH!

YOU NEVER REALIZE IT, AND YOU WILL NEVER DO.

MIRROR YOURSELF BEFORE YOU WANTED TO TELL ON OTHERS.

HYPOCRITE & EGO. THAT IS THE EXACT ATTITUDE OF YOURS.

AND DON'T SAY THAT I'M WORST, BECAUSE I HAVE A VERY GREAT RELATIONSHIP.

AND A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS BETTER THAN YOURS.

JEALOUS? DON'T BE. CAUSE YOU ARE THE ONE WHO DO NOT WANT TO FIX YOURSELF.